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Joint Ownership — The Simple Solution That Creates Complex Problems

Your parent's bank account has a "problem," or at least your parent thinks it does. They're worried about what happens to their money if something happens to them. Maybe they're in their seventies or eighties and thinking about mortality. Maybe they've just had a health scare. Maybe they watched a friend's family get tangled in probate and want to avoid that for you. So they decide on what seems like the simplest solution: they put your name on their bank account. Joint ownership. Both of you can access it. When they die, it automatically goes to you. Problem solved.

Except the problem isn't really solved. You've just created a different set of problems, ones that your parent probably didn't anticipate and ones that might affect you and your parent's estate in ways neither of you intended. This is one of those situations where the easiest thing to do in a panicky moment creates headaches down the road.

I'm not saying joint ownership is always wrong. There are legitimate situations where joint ownership makes sense. But it's also the estate planning equivalent of trying to fix something with duct tape when you need actual tools. Understanding how it works, what it costs you, and what better alternatives exist is important before you add your name to any of your parent's accounts.

Understanding the Basics

Joint ownership means both people own the account, both can withdraw money, and both have equal rights to what's in it. When your parent dies, the money typically passes directly to you without going through probate. That part is straightforward and is the main reason people choose joint ownership. They want to avoid the probate process, which can be expensive, time-consuming, and public.

What's less straightforward is everything else. Joint ownership doesn't mean you're responsible for managing the account while your parent is alive. It means you have full access and full legal authority to do whatever you want with it. You could, if you wanted to, withdraw all the money and your parent couldn't do anything about it legally. You could be sued along with your parent if money in the account becomes tangled up in a debt issue. You could owe creditor claims on money you didn't owe before.

The other thing joint ownership doesn't give you is clarity about your parent's intent. If your parent puts their child on their account, is it because they want that child to own half the account right now, or is it a workaround to avoid probate? Is it because they expect that child to be the executor of their estate, or is it just convenience? Is it because that child is the favorite, or is it because that child lives closest? Ambiguity creates conflict between siblings.

Here's the tax complication. If your parent puts you on an account and the account grows in value, that growth is taxable. If your parent had a $50,000 investment account and it grows to $75,000, the $25,000 in growth is taxable income. Now you're both owners of an account that generated income you didn't consent to receiving. If you're in a higher tax bracket than your parent or your parent was managing this account in a certain tax-efficient way, this can create unexpected tax liability.

If your parent lives in a state that has an estate tax, adding you to the account doesn't reduce the value of the taxable estate. It just complicates it. Your parent is still the primary owner, they're still the person who funded it, and it's still counted in their estate for tax purposes.

Your Parent's Specific Situation

Ask your parent directly what they're trying to accomplish. Are they worried about probate? Are they worried about you not having access to money if something happens to them? Are they trying to plan for long-term care and worried about Medicaid claiming the account? Are they just making their life easier by having you help manage bills? The answer changes what solution actually works.

If your parent is simply trying to make sure you can pay their bills if they become incapacitated, joint ownership is overkill and creates more risk than it solves. A better solution exists for that situation. Ask me about it later.

If your parent is trying to avoid probate, joint ownership does accomplish that, but other tools accomplish it better. A living trust, for example, passes assets outside of probate without creating current legal ownership complications. Transfer-on-death designations on accounts do the same thing. Both are better solutions than joint ownership for that specific goal.

If your parent is concerned about Medicaid, understanding the Medicaid rules for joint accounts is important because the rules are complicated and having joint ownership actually creates bigger Medicaid problems than it solves.

You need to know what other accounts or assets your parent has. If your parent has a will or living trust that names you as executor or trustee, adding your name to accounts creates duplication and potential conflict. If your parent has other children, adding your name to one account but not others raises the question of whether this is intentional or an oversight.

If your parent is married, adding a child to a joint account creates issues about what happens to that account if the other spouse dies or if there's a dispute about marital property. It complicates the surviving spouse's ability to manage the estate.

Taking Next Steps

If your parent has already added you to accounts, you need to understand what's in those accounts, what you're legally responsible for, and whether the joint ownership still serves your parent's original intent. Talk to your parent about what they were trying to accomplish and whether it's working. Sometimes joint ownership is fine for one account and not appropriate for another.

You also need to talk to an estate planning attorney about your parent's overall plan. Are there other documents in place like a will or living trust? Do those documents align with the joint ownership, or do they conflict? If your parent is trying to leave equal amounts to multiple children but has only added one child to the joint account, there's a mismatch that needs to be addressed.

If your parent dies and the account is jointly owned, be aware that you'll be responsible for that account as the surviving owner. You can't just hand it to someone else because it's yours legally. The probate process doesn't apply because the account passes to you automatically, but you still have obligations around taxes, creditor claims, and your parent's final expenses.

The better solution, depending on your parent's actual goal, might be a power of attorney, which gives you authority to manage accounts if your parent becomes incapacitated without making you a current owner. It might be a living trust with you named as successor trustee, which passes assets outside of probate while maintaining clarity about your parent's intent. It might be a transfer-on-death designation on the account, which accomplishes the probate avoidance goal without the current ownership complications.

If your parent is still alive and hasn't added you to accounts yet but is thinking about it, pause and talk to an estate planning attorney first. The consultation will cost you a few hundred dollars. The headaches you'll avoid are worth far more than that.

If your parent is deceased and the account is in joint names, you need to handle the estate properly. Report it on the estate tax return if one needs to be filed. Pay any taxes owed on account growth that occurred after your ownership began. Check for creditor claims. Don't assume that having your name on the account means you can just spend the money tax-free. Life and death are more complicated than that.

Joint ownership feels simple because it is simple in the moment. You add a name, you're done, you move on. The simplicity is deceptive. It creates complications that echo through tax situations, family relationships, and potential creditor issues. Your parent's desire to take care of things and your desire to be helpful are both valid. But they deserve better tools than joint ownership to accomplish those goals.

How To Help Your Elders is an educational resource. We do not provide medical, legal, or financial advice. The information in this article is general in nature and may not apply to your specific situation. If you are concerned about a loved one's cognitive health or safety, consult with their healthcare provider or contact your local Area Agency on Aging for guidance and support.