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Cremation vs. burial — the practical and emotional considerations

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. Cremation vs. burial — the practical and emotional considerations One of the first questions you'll face after a death is what to do with

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Funeral planning — the decisions and the logistics

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. Funeral planning — the decisions and the logistics At some point in the first few days after a death, you will have conversations with a funeral

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The first hours after death — what to do and what can wait

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. The first hours after death — what to do and what can wait The moment someone dies, the world doesn't stop. People keep calling.

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Choosing a hospice provider — what to look for

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. The decision to enroll in hospice is often made in crisis. Your mother is declining rapidly, the doctor says she has days or weeks, and

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Hospice and pain management — the promise of comfort

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. One of the first things families ask about hospice is this: will they be in pain? The fear is real and specific. You imagine your

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Hospice for heart failure patients — the cardiac trajectory

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. Your father sits down to tie his shoes and has to stop halfway through because he's out of breath. He's been

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Hospice for dementia patients — the unique path

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. With most illnesses, the path to hospice is relatively clear. A cancer patient progresses through treatment into late stages. Someone with heart failure has a

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Revoking hospice — when they get better or change their mind

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. The phone rings. Your mother's nurse says something unexpected: she's improving. She's eating more. Her breathing is easier. The

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Continuous care and crisis care — hospice at its most intensive

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. Most of the time, hospice is a few visits a week or a nurse coming once a week to check in, adjust medications, and make

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Hospice and Medicare — how the benefit works financially

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. One of the great mercies of hospice is that when your parent is eligible for Medicare hospice benefits, the financial burden changes. The worry about

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When they die — what happens immediately after

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. The moments after someone dies are strange. The body is still warm. Your parent still looks like your parent. But something has completely changed. The

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Being present at the end — what it's like to be in the room

This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult with qualified professionals regarding your specific situation. Being in the room when someone dies is something your body doesn't forget. The air tastes different. Time works differently. Fear and peace